What makes a REAL true friend?

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Everyone has their own opinion on what makes a real true friend. It is very hard to find people who will not lie, steal or do you wrong. When you finally find a true real friend you have found a treasure.

What makes a REAL true friend?

  1. They cry when you cry.
  2. They are there to listen when you need them.
  3. They make you smile and laugh when you need it most.
  4. They show you loyalty.
  5. They respect you and your feelings.
  6. They are trustworthy and they tell you the truth even when it’s hard.
  7. Most important, they do not use you. You see a person’s true colors when you are no longer beneficial to their life.

When you have a best friend you tend to sweep certain things under the rug. You do this out of the fear of losing them, you love them or because you know it is just in their nature. This all part of being human.

The bad and the ugly.

On your end you truly are trying to be a real friend but they are not. You are trying to help them see their ways. You have tried to talk to them but they just can not be reached. They lie, they steal and do you wrong so much. Sometimes it results into no longer being friends. You shed a few tears and grow past it. You can only be used so much before you give in. One thing is for sure “Friends come and go but memories last forever!”

You are your own best friend.

Research has shown that the better quality relationships you have; the more likely you are to be happy. I think this is true but you must first be friends with yourself. You can not be your own worst enemy. You must learn to love yourself and be able to be alone. “You” are the only one you can control!

How to be friends with yourself.

    1. Forgive yourself – You have made mistakes in the past, but you can not change them. You can only learn from them. It is human to make mistakes, do yourself a favor and give yourself forgiveness.
    2. Focus on your strengths not you weaknesses. – Recognize your strengths and build your life around them.
    3. Accept what you can’t change – In life things will happen that you cannot change. Learn to Accept them. You will feel so much better and have less stress once you have accomplished this. Just accept them, smile and move on.
    4. Stop comparing yourself with others. – You can not be like anyone else. You are unique. That is what makes you special. You are one of a kind. You are everything you need to achieve your life’s purpose.
    5. Be True to Yourself. – You do not like other people lying to you right? Don’t try to lie to yourself. In whatever you do, be honest and follow your conscience.
    6. Like yourself. – Most people do not like themselves. It could be their past, personality traits or background. These things can make it very difficult for you to like yourself. Make peace with everything and move on from it. Grow stronger and be the BEST YOU that you can be.

Shout out to my Life Coach – Sira. Thank you for all the help you have given me.


Author: CafeMoms


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